Gadsby-Dolly: Don’t engage in same bullying in sensitive matter

Sascha Wilson 

Education Minister Dr Nyan Gadsby-Dolly is asking the public to be responsible in their comments and actions in response to the death of 15-year-old Jayden Lalchan. Following allegations that he took his own life on October 3 because he was being bullied at school, there has been outrage and sadness on social media. Opposition Leader Kamla Persad-Bissessar has also called for justice to be served.

In a WhatsApp response to Guardian Media yesterday, the minister said his death is tragic, and the ministry extends its condolences to the bereaved family and Jayden’s school community. Based on the report received, she said, the first indication that Jayden was having difficulty at school came in the form of a letter from Jayden to a teacher on September 17. The letter referenced teasing by another student, which was being investigated by the Dean.

On September 26, she said, a student pulled Jayden’s mask, and Jayden retaliated by punching the student. A teacher quelled the altercation. As reported, she said, Jayden’s parent visited the school for the first time on September 27 but did not meet with the principal. She said Jayden continued to attend school without any further reported incidents until he tragically ended his life. The minister said, “No evidence has been presented to suggest that Jayden was made to endure years of sustained bullying, as there were no prior or subsequent reports of bullying made to the school, and no reports to the Ministry on this issue.” However, she said, the TTPS has indicated that they are investigating the incident, and the Ministry will collaborate in any way required.

Gadsby-Dolly noted, however, that this issue is very emotive and emotional, and, as a nation, “we grieve with Jayden’s parents.” “However, I have seen some adults on social media, without full knowledge of the circumstances, naming and blaming a young man, sharing his picture, and making incendiary comments. This is extremely unfortunate and simply wrong; adults are engaging in the same behaviour, bullying, which they are accusing the young man of. Let us carefully consider the example being set for our young people, whom we expect so much of. 

Our youth look to us, and regardless of the situation and our feelings, we all have a responsibility to show them the best example possible.” The minister said the ministry has extended counselling services and support to Jayden’s parents and schoolmates, and encourages all students and parents to take advantage of the services provided by social workers and guidance counsellors at their schools. She also reminded parents that counselling is available through the Ministry of Sport and Community Development’s Community Mediation offices and the Ministry of Social Development’s Suicide Prevention Hotline at 800 – COPE (2673).

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